#truthbomb - Your morning routine sucks - what to do instead of being on your phone

You're not alone if checking your phone is the first thing you do every day. In fact 3 of 4 smartphone users are on their phones as soon as they wake up.

This is 'normal' for most of us but lets just let this sink in for a minute. You go straight from sleep to scrolling every single morning.

You're on your phone before you know:

  • how you feel
  • what you want from your day
  • what you have on, or
  • to acknowledge (heaven forbid connect with!) who you're sleeping next to.

Um.. those things are kind of important...

If you go straight to work emails, you're at work from waking. That's a lot of unpaid overtime.

If you go straight to the news, your body's hormones will bounce around according to what you're reading. 

You're not in your life or your body. You're greater needs aren't being met. You're numb at one level and getting your dopamine hits at another but not living into your own body, surrounds or life. 

Anyone who wants to approach their day from a place of calm and clearheadedness (particularly parents, managers and well, everyone) will see their life transform with a good start to the morning.

Let's talk morning routines! 

What could yours look like?

1. Some kind of quiet - you don't have to meditate, you could just do a 'body scan' to see how you're feeling, check in with yourself emotionally and take some deep breaths.

2. Some kind of movement - dance, stretch, do five minutes of yoga or pilates, wiggle around. Whatever and where ever the spirit moves you. 

3. Some kind of nuturing to yourself. Do you love a cup of tea or coffee? Put it in your favourite mug and drink it without distraction. Taste it. Dress yourself with care, not like some angry and swift attendent who wants their shift to end. Make a breakfast you will enjoy, not just what is easiest.

4. Set an intention of how you want to interact with people in your life. Happily? With patience? With love? With strength? Whatever, it will make a difference.

Give yourself a minute to daydream about how your perfect morning would be and then live it, just for tomorrow. See how you feel and adjust accordingly.

Without your phone, you'll be more creative, aware and centred. The world will adjust accordingly, just you wait.

* Now I know that it's hard working around kids in the morning, particularly when they wake early or their sleeping patterns are all over the place. Just try to do whichever steps are possible for you each morning. Some will work out better than others, but the intention will be there and be a benefit regardless. 

Go gently, 

Lara xx


Hi, I'm Dr Lara Corr, life coach and researcher in work and wellbeing. I coach successful 30 and 40 somethings who want more fulfilling or bigger careers but doubt themselves and their options. I help them get out of their own way, find direction and go for what they really want.

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